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WHAT ARE YOU? WHAT ARE WE?
bottom boy sub slave pig pup masochist...
top master dom trainer handler sir sadist daddy...
In a world obsessed with labels, today's BDSM society feels the need to classify one's position - as if it were an unwavering, fixed identity. To us, this "single" identity is bullshit. At times we may be Sirs, and at others we may be Handlers, or Tops, or your Master. And at times (*gasp*) we sometimes bottom.
So... how does this work? Well, it's the dynamic of a scene that we seek. A special connection between people that creates excitement, sexual tension, fear, and the like. For the sake of simplicity, we both identify as Tops and most often refer to those who end up in our dungeon as bottoms. We utilize trust-based BDSM - and trust must be established for both parties before any session begins. Submission can either be a choice or a natural part of your psyche. Almost everything we engage in involves bondage. Bondage is a tool used to do two things; 1) enforce submission or the feeling of giving up control, 2) it is a wonderful means of providing focus on what the top is doing. This is what we call erotic power exchange - where the bottom empowers the top by relinquishing 100% control of their well-being to them - and that is given back by the actions of the top during the session. (note that our definition of power exchange is slightly different than that used by the straight BDSM community).
Some relationship associations: Top/bottom, Sir/boy, Master/slave, Dominant/submissive, Trainer/pup,, Sadist/masochist. We hope you are getting the picture by now! What you are determines what we become during a scene.
Please check out our new LTHR101 page if you are looking for a place to start and learn more
ARE YOU INTERESTED?
Interested in playing? We host both bottoms and tops for scenes ranging from a couple of hours to several days. We can also host out-of-town guests (in and out of bondage!). Please respect the fact that we are selective about who we play with and please do not mis-represent yourself - we will turn people away at the door if the profile/pics and reality don't match. We are located in Los Angeles, CA near Pasadena/Glendale. The following information will help you determine if you are a match or would be wasting your time with us.
Send either one of us an email and INCLUDE A FACE/BODY PIC as well as a description of your experience and what you are looking for.
WHAT WE ARE LOOKING FOR
- 25 to 45 years (older is fine if you are in exceptional shape - 21 is the minimum and you had better act 25). Height and weight proportional - a little spare tire is fine, if you can't see your feet, well that isn't. Race doesn't matter. No femmes and no flaming queens. The size of your dick does not matter. Follow the theme park rules for turbulent rides - no heart or back problems, etc... Not into "bears" but are very fond of bear "cubs" (those who are know the difference).
- Your level of experience is not an issue at all, BUT we want to know ahead of time what your experience is.
- You can (and will) let us know when something is too tight or causing you problems. You cannot and will not whine and be a pushy bottom. We will give you the safe word when you arrive. Wet noodles and dead fish do not turn us on - don't just lie there. We want to hear and see your predicament.
- You had better love to kiss - deeply and intensely. This is one of your rewards for great service. The reward for outstanding service is getting jacked off. If you are adverse to kissing please go elsewhere for your kink.
- Please clean out before you arrive. As for outside your ass, we love the smell of men and that sweaty/musky smell is hot. But, 3 days of not showering is not attractive. Freshly showered is fine, too. DO NOT WEAR ANY DEODORANT OR COLOGNE.
- Long hair is a problem with hoods and getting tangled in gear. We don't like it. Gel and mousse is not acceptable as it fucks up the hood(s) that you will likely be wearing.
- Leave your attitude at home. Scenes can be very difficult to set up and there will be times when you will be bored.
- We play safe. LAthrbondage likes to fuck. Getting fucked is a natural extension of a hot scene and is fitting reward for the one topping you. However, if you do not want to get fucked please advise us ahead of time. However, you will likely be forced to suck -- and hopefully eagerly! We do not wear condoms when getting blown. Re. HIV: We are both HIV-negative. However, we truly have no issues if you are poz (many of the hot men in our gallery are positive). Regardless of your status - all of our play is lower-risk and reasonably safe as far as BDSM can be. But we do appreciate your informing us before we play. Please do not even think of asking us to bareback or engage in high-risk activity.
- The only two pieces of clothing which we require are boots and a jock. If we don't like what you are wearing it will be removed. That said, fetish clothes (leather/rubber) and your favorite accessories are welcome.
- If you do have your own gear - you are welcome to bring it - although we may or may not use it. If you are small and have your own gear (like straitjackets) please bring them as our may not fit you.
- Part of Lthrbound's kink is taking pics of guys struggling in their bondage. If you are camera-shy, discuss this with us beforehand. You will receive copies of photos for your own (explicitly non-commercial) use.
- Are you interested and a likely match? If so, EMAIL US (click here for instructions).
- If you have your own gear - please bring it. We are well equipped to provide it if necessary but if you know what works for you and your gear gets you into pup-space that is what we want.
- The collar is our method of signalling pup mode. When it comes off you are free to speak - otherwise, no standing or speaking. You will learn all other acceptable behaviors during your pup time.
- If you have to urinate it is your responsibility to figure out how to get our attention to the basement door to the backyard. Pick your most appropriate foliage and have at it.
- Both of us are comfortable on either side "of the ropes" (so to speak). LAlthrbound is more likely to be the one getting worked over but exceptional tops can have at LAlthrbondage.
- We love group scenes and dungeon parties. But setting up a group scene is difficult. It's considered quite an honor when we go to the effort to set one up for one boy. Ask to get fucked by 20 guys before your first scene and you will likely not get that first date. If group scenes interest you, perhaps the phrase to use would be "I'd be open to it" as opposed to "I WANT this and I WANT that" -- we are not service providers here!
- SLAMMER (Los Angeles). LAlthrbound frequents Slammer often. Would be glad to meet there.
- SILVERLAKE BARS (Faultline, Gauntlet2, Cuffs). Won't play there but love to chat in-person. Say hello if you see us. Often end up hauling guys home from these bars if the chemistry is right. As for the public part, we occasionally take bottoms out in full gear and 'things' happen...
We collared boyroger on March 3, 2005! We are no longer searching but for your reference, our criteria will remain online below.
- We are looking to grow our family to three members. We are looking for a long-term leather boy to join us. We fully realize this is going to be a hard match to find and are willing to wait it out for the perfect fit.
- The descriptions below DO NOT apply if you are just looking for a session. Our boy will be both a bottom and an assistant to us in the playroom, a partner in the bedroom, and hopefully a good friend, too.
- Self-starter. We will provide room and board but are looking for someone who is self-sufficient, career minded, independent thinking and motivated.
- 21-35ish. We realize that a true leather boy comes in all adult ages. But we feel the perfect complement is someone who is more than just young-at-heart.
- Fit. We don't expect perfection but we prefer someone physically fit - not overly muscular, bone-thin, or overweight. The clean look is a definite plus. No chemical dependencies - occasional social inebriation is fine with us.
- Educated (or in the process of earning a degree). You will be in the company of two well educated men.
- Service-oriented. We like the mindset of someone who is eager to please and derives gratification from work well-done. The playroom will be responsibility number one and that is truly a handful. We desire the boy to want to be there and work with positive reinforcement only. We maintain two residences and travel often.
- Open. We have a very special open relationship - succesfully built on trust and respect. We plan on extending this to our boy over time as those bridges are built. We realize that there will be times when the boy needs to hang with his own set of friends and that he may have unmet needs that we cannot fulfil. Open also means open to new experiences and uncharted territories.
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